The Wait

Why does progress feel slower between sessions?

Short answer

Often because change in therapy is not smooth. It tends to come in jumps, not a steady climb. A large review found that a big share of a person's total improvement can arrive in a single stretch between two sessions. So the flat weeks can feel like nothing, even when the overall path is upward.

The research
Aderka, I. M., Nickerson, A., Bøe, H. J., and Hofmann, S. G. (2012). Sudden gains during psychological treatments of anxiety and depression: A meta-analysis. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, volume 80, pages 93 to 101.
Sample 1,104 people across 16 treatment studies
Published 2012
Journal Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology
Idan Aderka, Angela Nickerson, Hans Jakob Bøe, and Stefan Hofmann pooled 16 studies covering 1,104 people who were in psychological treatment for depression or an anxiety disorder. They focused on a pattern called a sudden gain, which is a large drop in symptoms across a single gap between two sessions. In the original work that named the pattern, these jumps averaged about a quarter of a person's symptoms and made up roughly half of their total improvement, and this review set out to test how much that held across many studies at once. People who had a sudden gain ended treatment in a better place than people who did not, with a moderate effect size of 0.62, and they were still doing better at follow-up, with an effect size of 0.56. The plain read of the numbers is that a lot of real change does not trickle in evenly. It lands in bursts, and long flat stretches sit in between.
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What does this mean for you?

If you feel like nothing is moving between sessions, this research offers a different way to see it. Progress in therapy often does not arrive on a schedule. For many people it sits still for a while, then shifts in a single week. The quiet stretches are not proof that the work has stalled. They can be the flat part of a line that still climbs over time.

It helps to be honest about what this study can and cannot say. It looked back at trials of talk therapy for depression and anxiety, so it does not map perfectly onto every kind of session or every person. Not everyone has a sudden gain, and some people improve in a slow, steady way instead. The review also cannot tell you when your own shift will come, or say for certain that it will. What it does show, across more than a thousand people, is that uneven progress is normal and that a slow week is not a failed one.

There is one more useful point buried in the numbers. Because so much change can hinge on a single stretch between sessions, the days in between are not empty time. They are where a lot of the movement actually happens. Feeling slow is often just the view from inside the wait, not the shape of the whole road.

The takeaway

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